The cat looked at me with big blue eyes and said “Please don’t pick me up and hug me today.”
He went on to say…
I don’t want to be held like a baby, a child or a kitten. Today I just want to be a cat.
I know you love me and want to cuddle, but I am tired of being snatched off the floor in a gooey embrace when I am in he middle of something. Last night you picked me up when I was cuddled up sleeping. Sigh.
The other day when you picked me up off my cushion, you startled me and the bird I was watching. Not good.
For one day, let me give you love and attention my way.
A little nudge here. A little purr there. I may even jump on your lap, but it must be my decision. You can gently pet me for a bit, but let me be the one to make the effort. Give me a chance and see what happens.
Every gift which is given, even though is be small, is in reality great, if it is given with affection.
You never know, you may enjoy the affection I give. You might realize that you don’t need a hug every two minutes, that just being near me is enough.
I know you cuddle me because you love me and want to show affection. I love you too mom, but that is what “you” need, not what I want as a cat.
I will appreciate it if you do this for me. Just do it today and tomorrow you can give me a hug.
Maybe in the future we will do it my way. We will see..
For all you know you may just enjoy the subtle way I give you love.
In the meantime, go press Miss Mattie’s buttons.
Mr Baily, the Zen Cat
Not funny Mr. Bailey